In the adult world, interpersonal relationships are actually very subtle.Some people chat enthusiastically online, but when they meet offline, they stutter and feel awkward, as if the air is still

In the adult world, interpersonal relationships are actually very subtle.

Some people chat enthusiastically online, but when they meet offline, they stutter and feel awkward, as if the air is still.

Some people are very chatty in reality, and when they chat on WeChat, they often end up with half a sentence and a blank space.

This is because the hidden rules of daily communication are completely different from the current hottest "WeChat hidden rules".

For WeChat chat, which is an off screen communication, it often requires people to have higher emotional intelligence.

So in the "WeChat hidden rules", there are several annoying chat methods, I hope you don't have any!

No matter how good your temper is,They all knelt down on WeChat Voice.

Every time I open a chat box, there are always long unread voice messages coming in front of me.

For example, when you are shopping, eating, or having a meeting outside and receive so many voice messages, it must be very frustrating.

And some people still speak dialects,Misspoken and mixed.

The conversion of voice strips into text is completely different from that meaning, it simply doesn't work.

Finally, I had to finish listening in one or two minutes,Discovering something that can be clearly explained in just one sentence.

But some people insist on chattering and really don't want to chat with such people, which is a waste of time.

If there is nothing to do in daily life, or simply lazy to type, this type of person is truly low in emotional intelligence.

If I ask everyone: What message are you most afraid of others posting in WeChat chat?

Many people should say, 'Are you there?'.

Previously, a former colleague sent me a message saying 'Are you there?',It took me a long time to see, and after greeting, the other person remained silent again.

After a day or two, my former colleague sent another message saying 'Are you there?' I looked at it and asked directly what was wrong before she replied that she would vote for her child's work, which was so frustrating.

A writer once said:Be sure to learn to express your feelings, rather than letting others guess

For some people, saying 'is it there?' may be a polite expression.

But in between, it consumes a lot of time and cost, really unnecessary.

Some people even joked and said, 'First say something, I'll decide whether I'm' here 'or' not. '.

Do you also have the experience of being tired for a whole day and finally falling asleep when suddenly a video call comes, without knowing why.

If it were one's own family, everyone would definitely feel that there is something urgent.

But helplessly,It's often people with average relationships who suddenly make video calls.

This kind of person isOffending others without a sense of boundaries, regardless of location or time.

If you really want to make a video call, it's best to first ask the other party if it's convenient and available.

Don't rush over and make people feel offended and don't want to talk to you anymore.

Whether in reality or on WeChat, any relationship needs to be treated with caution.

People with high emotional intelligence often empathize and do not disturb others just for their own convenience.

Giving others appropriate respect, not exceeding the boundaries of communication, and following the hidden rules of WeChat can make a relationship go longer and farther.

Finally, I hope everyone can make improvements and encourage others to cherish and maintain every WeChat relationship.

Author/Wen Chunbuyu

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